We had been out for the weekend. Thought I'd be just chilling out and relaxing and so did I. Yet it somehow was an eye opener. I always assumed that guys these days are more caring towards thier children and that's one quality almost every girl would be looking out in her man yet it was surprising to me whn i saw things havent changed much. There were people around who thought that taking care of children was solely the responsibility of the lady in the house. Ridiculous, i'd say. Cant they once think that even the wife would b interested in doing or enjoying herself once in a while? If Men working just 8hours in a day(+ travel time) can make them tired, why the hell can't they think it could be so for thier wifes who work 20/7? What do these men actually want to show..is it that they work a lot in office and so shudn't be bothered once back home when the truth is I dont call it work if u just sitting on the computer and doing nothing that tiring. I mean, imagine the lady needs to make sure that everything in the house is absolutly perfect and she shudnt even expect a helping hand. crazzyyyyyyy..
On the second thoughts it could also be an attempt to hide thier inefficiency in comparison to thier better half. Just that ego doesnt let go to admit that the lady is doing a great job juggling so many roles at the same time. It also doesnt let u appreciate a fellow being who is trying to help his wife.. just straight pass a nonsensical comment to satisfy ur ego. I'm all pity for those por females who have to struggle with such men and I thank my stars I dont have to do with one of them. I found him to be an absolute gem. worth living entire life with. he understands and reciprocates to our( mine n our baby's) needs without asking for.
i remember one of my friend asked me what's great about him and i answered his understanding. Till date its the same quality of his that makes me go bonkers over him. I have never come across another person who could understand me so well. its been a great journey with him so far and I hope it'd be so till I die.
